How well do you know your partner?

This is a question that our marriage counselor asked us recently. We were surprised by the results! She gave us a list of questions and here’s some of them if you’d like to try with your partner:

1. What was your partner wearing when you first met?
2. What stresses are facing your partner in the near future?
3. Describe in detail your partner’s day, either today or yesterday.
4. What is your partner’s favorite and least favorite relative?
5. What makes your partner feel most competent?
6.. What personal improvements does your partner want to make in their life?
7. What was one of your partner’s best and worst childhood experience?
8. Who is your partner’s greatest source of support (other than you)?
9. What is your partner currently most sad about?
10. Which person does your partner most admire in the world?

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Husband 2.0

progress bar installing becoming a better husband 2.0

I am currently in the process of being upgraded to a better husband. Just like when opening an app and it asks you to update, my wife suggested I update myself.

It was long overdue. I was crashing, force closing my mind, becoming glitchy when she was talking, and not quite as user friendly as I once was.

So, I am currently becoming husband 2.0. This will be a multi-post series where I describe my changes and have my wife give honest feedback and rank how satisfied she is with her new and improved hubby.

Upgrade 1: Acts of Service

This upgrade will improve my processing power by alllowing me to complete more tasks simultaneously. These functions include but are not limited to: dishes, laundry, changing diapers, feeding the baby, cleaning the bathroom (especially around the toilet), grocery shopping and other tasks she gets usually gets stuck with more of.

By improving the servicing part of my dad microchip, this will allow her to take more breaks from the daily drudgery and enjoy life more. Hopefully, this will lead to a positive review from my wife. We’ll see how it goes and I’ll post her feedback here soon on a 1-5 star scale just like the reviews for apps.

Now, if you’ll please excuse me, I must download my new dad update. Follow my blog for more updates to my goal to become husband 2.0, and as always, thank you for reading. 🙂